Awareness

Anti Bullying Week

Anti Bullying Week

      I’ve always been an avid supporter of anti-bullying campaigns, it’s something that is close to my heart and an area that I feel I need to speak up on. Since, as far back as I can remember, being bullied was a general part of my life.  At 13 years old, I was attacked my a group of 15 girls, who all ranged between 15 to 19.  There was no ignition for it, they were a ‘gang’ looking […]

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Masturbation: Unlocking Your Inner Key

Masturbation: Unlocking Your Inner Key

  May is a celebration, not only is the English weather perking up but it is also Masturbation Month.  A month where we shout from the tree tops about our little fondles and saying “it’s ok to love one’s self“. Growing up as a young teen in the early 90’s, in school there were two topics that cropped up that we found embarrassing to discuss: sex and periods.  Both of which are very natural things for a female to experience, […]

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Guest Post – Sex and Mental Health

Guest Post - Sex and Mental Health

    I have been given the opportunity to write a guest spot for That’s The Spot’s blog and as it is the week of Mental Health Awareness (11th – 17th May), I felt the need to write about sex and mental health. As I have lived with PTSD over the period of 7 years but now recovered, it is a topic that has a place in my heart.  Although I no longer live with PTSD, I do experience issues […]

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Disability and Sex toys – What is there?

Disability and Sex toys - What is there?

Just because a person has a disability, doesn’t mean they do not partake in the pleasurable fun, that is sex!  They still enjoy sex for all the right reasons, just like me and you but there are times, when a product has more means to them. It’s not just about the way the body is, there are men who suffer with erection dysfunction, women who can not self lubricate efficiently, people living with spinal issues, depression, the list is endless.  […]

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What Sex Toys are suited for you

What Sex Toys are suited for you

  There are a lot of choices in today’s market for sex toys and it can be confusing, especially if you are not sure if you would like the flow of something. It’s much easier to visit a high street store and check out the goodies but then, do the shop assistants know exactly what does what and the materials a sex toy is made from?  Unfortunately, many shop assistants aren’t fully knowledgeable in this aspect.  This is where sex […]

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50 shades of me

50 shades of me

    This is something that I have been wanting to write about for a long time.  It is very personal and is my journey throughout PTSD. I felt it was time to share…………   It goes dark and the only feeling you know, right it that moment, is being empty.  Nothing can fill that void, no one around you can help, you don’t even register your surroundings.  Heat rises up from the pit of your stomach, with an anger […]

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Things you may not know about Orgasms

Things you may not know about Orgasms

      As a teen, I thought that orgasms were like that restaurant scene in ‘When Harry Met Sally”, intense, over dramatic and with the woman flaying around the bed sheets like an attack scene from a Jaws film!  I was very wrong, especially when I experienced my first big O, which caught me off guard. There have been times when I have ‘faked it’, I mean, the look of a man’s face when he hasn’t pleasured you fully, […]

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Looking for a Sex Toy? Then check out these Key rules…….

Looking for a Sex Toy? Then check out these Key rules.......

When I first started looking to purchase sex toys, there really wasn’t any advice available and what was good, bad and ugly. BUT with today being a time, where everything is bunged on the internet, this information is steadily available.  Plus, there are many very informative sex toy review blogs that can help sway your purchasing decisions, along the way. Purchasing a sex toy isn’t as simple as it looks, well actually it is but there are some Do’s and […]

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Raise money for Breast Cancer Awareness with the Voluptasse Bra Challenge

Raise money for Breast Cancer Awareness with the Voluptasse Bra Challenge

        I should have posted this weeks ago but better late than never! October is Breast Cancer Awareness month and in support of this, the lovely Voluptasse is holding a competition, where you could win a £25.00 GBP voucher to spend over at voluptasse.co.uk. Entering is simple (although this ends on Friday 30th oct, so get moving!); Text BEAT and your donated amount to 70200 and once you have received confirmation, post a picture of yourself in […]

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Ditch The Label – Bullying ain’t cool!

Ditch The Label - Bullying ain't cool!

  It’s about time that we teach our future generations that it is OK to be different.  Whether you’re tall, small, plump, slim, pear shaped, tom boy looking, black, white, tattooed etc, we are all the same inside.   I was with some friends, chilling out in town the other day and minding our own business.  The sun was shining, a flow of coffee and good conversation, I could have asked for more.  A young woman, around her mid 20’s, […]

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