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Kinky Valentines Day Gift Ideas

Kinky Valentines Day Gift Ideas

      Happy new year to all my readers and I hope you’ve enjoyed your Christmas and NYE’s holiday!  I’ve packed away the decorations, found what little space I have to put my goodies away in and have rapidly moved on to the thought of Valentines Day.  Who would have thought that we’d be focusing on February 14th, so soon?  I’m not entirely sure what Mr. Monkey and I will have planned but I can be you it will […]

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Anti Bullying Week

Anti Bullying Week

      I’ve always been an avid supporter of anti-bullying campaigns, it’s something that is close to my heart and an area that I feel I need to speak up on. Since, as far back as I can remember, being bullied was a general part of my life.  At 13 years old, I was attacked my a group of 15 girls, who all ranged between 15 to 19.  There was no ignition for it, they were a ‘gang’ looking […]

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A Guide to Floggers 101

A Guide to Floggers 101

    Do you use a flogger during your ‘play time’ and wanting to add to your collection?  Or are you new to the BDSM scene and not sure where to start, with buying a flogger?  I think I may have just the answer for both but don’t worry, I’m not trying to flog you anything (get it? OK OK, bad joke!) You’d think the market for Floggers would be tiny!  After all, how many different ways can you design […]

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Case of the Ex blues n twos!

Case of the Ex blues n twos!

    It’s been a while since I’ve delved into a ‘how to’ type topic and I’m not sure what my next venture shall be (relationships?), if I’m honest, I’ve been finding it very hard to sit and focus enough time to write any type of topic or review. Some may know what my ‘real’ job is and if you do not, well let’s just leave it at that! My shifts can be hectic and the past couple of months, […]

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Nothing Wrong With a Little (sex) Bump ‘n’ Grind!

Nothing Wrong With a Little (sex) Bump 'n' Grind!

I’ve been finding it very hard, over the past 2 months, to keep up with my blog.  Mainly due to work being a heavy load and when I do have down time, I tend to shut off. Recently I have been a little too ‘pent up’ and it has actually been driving me a little cray cra!  I had no real outlet and I didn’t know exactly what I wanted, I just needed some way to extract frustrations of the […]

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July’s Must Haves and Deals

July's Must Haves and Deals

    G’day folks! You may have noticed that my blog has been a tad more quiet than usual recently, fear not, I am still here!  But my real world job has had my dedicated time, I’m starting to think this adulting lark is taking the mickey…well, some things! I felt it was only right that I updated you with July’s monthly offers from my lovely sponsors and also my top sex toy products (or related) that I must have […]

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Masturbation: Unlocking Your Inner Key

Masturbation: Unlocking Your Inner Key

  May is a celebration, not only is the English weather perking up but it is also Masturbation Month.  A month where we shout from the tree tops about our little fondles and saying “it’s ok to love one’s self“. Growing up as a young teen in the early 90’s, in school there were two topics that cropped up that we found embarrassing to discuss: sex and periods.  Both of which are very natural things for a female to experience, […]

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Can Cybersex really be that bad?

Can Cybersex really be that bad?

    What lengths and risks do you take, when it comes to having your frills from the internet?  It is a good question and one which I doubt those using relevant websites, take into account. Years ago I dabbled in a bit of web-cam fun, over on adultwork.  I was shy to start with but my confidence soon flourished.  I wasn’t to much on the ‘up’ with what punters wanted or liked, which threw a spanner in my works […]

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Guide to Bondage 101

Guide to Bondage 101

  I’ve been umming about writing a ‘how to‘ type post on bondage, I wasn’t sure if it would be of any use.  Mainly because I’m not 110% out there in the scene and prefer to keep certain aspects more private but then I realized that that wasn’t the issue, it’s confidence that is my issue. There are many guides available from other bloggers, so why bother writing my version?  Because it’s my version and no other, it makes this […]

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Bursting those Condom Myths

Bursting those Condom Myths

        Sex is great, it’s bloody fantastic and the last thing you need is a Debbie Downer, right? I really do feel like I’m about to fly into one of ‘those’ embarrassing mum moments, so I shall apologize before I start, sorry! But is it really a mood killer to stop and ‘bag up’, which can take a moment, compared to catching a god awful STI or falling pregnant (if not planned).  No it is not! I […]

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