Posts Tagged advice

Anti Bullying Week

Anti Bullying Week

      I’ve always been an avid supporter of anti-bullying campaigns, it’s something that is close to my heart and an area that I feel I need to speak up on. Since, as far back as I can remember, being bullied was a general part of my life.  At 13 years old, I was attacked my a group of 15 girls, who all ranged between 15 to 19.  There was no ignition for it, they were a ‘gang’ looking […]

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Case of the Ex blues n twos!

Case of the Ex blues n twos!

    It’s been a while since I’ve delved into a ‘how to’ type topic and I’m not sure what my next venture shall be (relationships?), if I’m honest, I’ve been finding it very hard to sit and focus enough time to write any type of topic or review. Some may know what my ‘real’ job is and if you do not, well let’s just leave it at that! My shifts can be hectic and the past couple of months, […]

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Masturbation: Unlocking Your Inner Key

Masturbation: Unlocking Your Inner Key

  May is a celebration, not only is the English weather perking up but it is also Masturbation Month.  A month where we shout from the tree tops about our little fondles and saying “it’s ok to love one’s self“. Growing up as a young teen in the early 90’s, in school there were two topics that cropped up that we found embarrassing to discuss: sex and periods.  Both of which are very natural things for a female to experience, […]

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Can Cybersex really be that bad?

Can Cybersex really be that bad?

    What lengths and risks do you take, when it comes to having your frills from the internet?  It is a good question and one which I doubt those using relevant websites, take into account. Years ago I dabbled in a bit of web-cam fun, over on adultwork.  I was shy to start with but my confidence soon flourished.  I wasn’t to much on the ‘up’ with what punters wanted or liked, which threw a spanner in my works […]

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Guide to Bondage 101

Guide to Bondage 101

  I’ve been umming about writing a ‘how to‘ type post on bondage, I wasn’t sure if it would be of any use.  Mainly because I’m not 110% out there in the scene and prefer to keep certain aspects more private but then I realized that that wasn’t the issue, it’s confidence that is my issue. There are many guides available from other bloggers, so why bother writing my version?  Because it’s my version and no other, it makes this […]

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Bursting those Condom Myths

Bursting those Condom Myths

        Sex is great, it’s bloody fantastic and the last thing you need is a Debbie Downer, right? I really do feel like I’m about to fly into one of ‘those’ embarrassing mum moments, so I shall apologize before I start, sorry! But is it really a mood killer to stop and ‘bag up’, which can take a moment, compared to catching a god awful STI or falling pregnant (if not planned).  No it is not! I […]

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10 Telltale signs that you’re about to cheat on your partner

10 Telltale signs that you’re about to cheat on your partner

Although we are as diverse as snowflakes, can there be some universal telltale signs that one is about to betray the relationship they are in? Ideally, you should be comfortable being open and making yourself vulnerable towards your partner. Also, you should appreciate them both physically, as well as personality wise. In the end, what holds two people together is their commitment to each other. Therefore, finding yourself in one of the following situations should be a warning signal: 1.  […]

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Looking to get your first sex toy?

Looking to get your first sex toy?

    The world of sex toys can be a little baffling for anyone, I know it confused me when I purchased my first vibrator.  There are many options, shapes, materials and types but what do they all do and will they be suited to you? Hopefully I can shine a little light on this adventure and make your first purchase of a sex toy, slightly easier. Why do we use sex toys?  It’s simple really, we use them to […]

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Guest Post – Sex and Mental Health

Guest Post - Sex and Mental Health

    I have been given the opportunity to write a guest spot for That’s The Spot’s blog and as it is the week of Mental Health Awareness (11th – 17th May), I felt the need to write about sex and mental health. As I have lived with PTSD over the period of 7 years but now recovered, it is a topic that has a place in my heart.  Although I no longer live with PTSD, I do experience issues […]

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Guide to Restraints

Guide to Restraints

  Restraints can come in many forms but how do you know what is best for you to use?  It can be over whelming, what with all the decision to make. Do you want wrist or ankle cuffs? Leather, steel or rubber?  What’s best for me? For me, when I started experimenting, I went with those fluffy fake police cuffs, which were kinky and fun but they just didn’t do a good job if keeping me ‘restrained’.  That’s when I […]

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